Characteristics and Traits
Balanced-You mix with others well and communicate your feelings openly and with ease. Your artistic sensitivity and aesthetic taste cause people to appreciate your creative endeavors. You are often found where sales, promotion, explanation and education are a part of your work.
Assertive-You are emotionally high strung and can get out of control too easily. Your effusive need to communicate betrays your insecurity and fear of real contact with others. You can easily embarrass and confuse others.
Passive-You can be hard hearted and calloused in your moods and emotional expression. Creative energy goes wasted and talent is ignored. Your sarcastic tongue drives people awasy and leaves you isolated when you need the presence of the others the most.
Balanced-You have a soft spot in your heart for humanity and wish to use you good nature to contribute to a better world. You see beauty and harmony everywhere, and seek to be in harmony within and without.
Assertive-You can be a little aggressive in your desire to improve the world. It might be a good idea to look at your own issues before crusading too hard. Repressed anger gets confuse with passion too often.
Passive-You can be sullen and dreary when others are having fun. Probable abuse issues for the past make it difficult to trust and show spontaneity. When desperate, you relish the art of passive manipulation.
Integrated Self Number
Balanced-You know yours strengths and your limits and find the right way to serve humanity without being used in return. The world lightens up as you pass by and leave your good will and good feelings behind.
Assertive-You can be hopelessly naive in your compulsive need to assist others. Be careful to separate your own hidden agenda from what appears to be altruistic sharing. You have much to share and give that is beautiful.
Passive-You can become silently resentful when you see others getting the limelight that you so desperately want and believe you deserve. You may feel like fate is passing you by, and has not been fare to you.
Balanced-You have an opportunity to develop and share your natural gifts with humanity. Life introduces you to a community of supporters that share your dreams and are supportive and fun. Your sense of joy and humor take you a long way toward success.
Assertive-You can become impatient and harsh in your perception of life and your circumstances. It is easy to waste your talents and get caught up in more frivolous and petty interests. You may flaunt, but fail to improve those talents.
Passive-It may feel like you have an unfair amount of roadblocks thrown in the path of your creative aspirations. There is a likelihood of sexual abuse in the family that has placed a poison on emotional and creative growth.
Interrelationship With Number 1
For further information about the interaction of numbers see Lynn’s book, Numerology: Nuances in Relationships.
Balanced-Your mutual appreciation of imagination and creative impulse make for the possibility of making special things together. It may be difficult to stay with one project since so many ideas fly around and become new possibilities.
Assertive-Together you can be impulsive, erratic and unable to sustain anything for very long before you split, or drift off to something new. You may not be able to tolerate the 1’s need to dominate.
Passive-There can be constant indecision and bickering as to who should take the initiative. You share many ideas, dreams and schemes. But little gets done. Other people find the delays frustrating as well.
Interrelationship With Number 2
Balanced-You are socially active, interested in a lot of things and may travel a lot together. It can be difficult to stay focused amid the numerous projects and endeavors that you share. Pleasure, light hearted candor and good fun come easily when you are at your best.
Assertive– There is a tendency to try too hard with what you are doing and with those you want to impress. Overindulgence finds its way easily into your life. It is easy to escape from relity into meaningless efforts.
Passive– You become mired in debates over details and minor issues. You can easily become angered and try to sabotage the other’s suggestions and efforts. You can find yourself hiding behind addictive behavior.
Interrelationship With Number 4
Balanced-Through mutual stability and careful consideration you can build a solid, splendid and spiritual union. The openness, playfulness and imagination of the 3 awakens the more hesitant, cautious and serious 4.
Assertive-The stodgy and stubborn 4 puts the clamps on the carefree and go for it 3. You end up emotionally stunted from the endless times you cannot agree upon how to go about things. Your actions are too often irrational and unproductive.
Passive-The cold and calloused 3 withholds giving in to the 4’s practical and probably most reliable suggestions. You use fuzzy logic and mental excuses to cover up basic emotional differences and incompatibilities.
Interrelationship With Number 5
Balanced-Freedom, fun and sometimes fantasy mark some of the things that you live by from day to day. When you set your mind to it you can have your cake and eat it too. You sometimes live a little bit far out there, but have enough sense to benefit from your style.
Assertive-Carelessness and failure to heed caution can cause you financial and emotional grief far too often for this to work well. Over indulgence can take you past the brink of chaos and into the land of serious dysfunction.
Passive-You spend a lot of time waiting for fate and someone else or something else to provide you with the things you want from life. Repressed fears and emotions can easily predominate your passively oriented lifestyle.
Interrelationship With Number 6
Balanced-By all archetypal standards this could be the perfect match. You share creative thoughts and energies and enjoy doing things that improve society and bring goodness to humanity.
Assertive-There is the likelihood of asking too much from perfection and becoming disappointed when others do not meet you standards. This will be an emotional roller coaster of a relationship whether that be intimate, commercial or social.
Passive-You set high expectations and just never quite seem to reach the level of harmony that both of you expected. Excuses, setbacks and blame make up a good portion of the interaction between you.
Interrelationship With Number 7
Balanced-When your hearts and heads are in agreement, this can be a most productive and constructive union. The 3 imagination combined with the 7 reason can be a good anchor for success.
Assertive-The 3’s constant emotional outbursts trouble the more rational 7, and can lead to issues of control rather than mutual expansion of consciousness. The 7’s detachment irritates the open fun seeking 3.
Passive-This combination can easily become gloomy, pessimistic and complaining when passivity takes over. The 7’s criticalness dampens the 3’s enthusiasm, and the 3’s cold calculating tactics cause distrust from the 7.
Interrelationship With Number 8
Balanced-This is at best a real power couple with loads of potential. Together you tap into the social mood of the day and are able to meet the needs and demands of the masses. Success can come easy, and be careful not to take it for granted.
Assertive-You can become arrogant and condescending toward those of less status and accomplishment. Your quest for power can lead you into taking many shortcuts and questionable paths of direction.
Passive-You find yourselves blaming society, your parents and everyone else when things go wrong. Fear of public and social reaction can prevent you from reaching your highest level of productivity.
Interrelationship With Number 9
Balanced-You serve each other, country and humanity. There are so many ways you can be creative and playful together. You may have to overcome some unusual hurdles and sacrifices to reach your dreams.
Assertive-You can be flaky, farsighted and fundamentally insecure in your union together. Irrational changes of direction and poorly thought out strategies lead to chaos and confusion.
Passive-An archetypal couple for this combination might be Mr. and Mrs. Walter Mitty. You dream, wish and fantasize in grandiose fashion. And, yet in the end very little gets done.