Characteristics and Traits
Balanced-More than likely you are the one who gets things started while others pause. You do not like routine or stagnant relationships. You are daring at the right time, daunting when called for and determined most of the time. You often find yourself the center of attention, and in fact, thrive on it.
Assertive-You can be overbearing, pushy and insensitive to how you effect those around you. Primarily, because you don’t care. There is often an egotistical need for constant recognition. Your impulsive actions betray the fact that you have given little prior thought to your actions. It is easy for you to be bossy rather than being a good boss.
Passive– You resent and criticize people who are doing well, especially those who are doing better than you. Your repressed anger makes you afraid to take initiative for fear it will get out of control and cause problems. You attract troubled relationships with negative animus men and excessively animus women.
Balanced-People may not recognize the strength of your will and determination with the number 1 in this position, depending upon how it manifests through your personality. (See your personality number). You sense an inner drive to be a part of something greater than yourself, and seek to find a social and spiritual outlet that fills that higher inner need.
Assertive-There is likely an early conflict of wills with your rather that impedes your progress of trust and connection with the archetypal male energy, or as some people say, to the masculine aspect of your divine creator. A big step toward making this higher connection will come as you work out the dysfunction of your personality.
Passive-You easily play victim and blame the universe and anyone else when things do not go your way. You may turn agnostic or atheistic in your approach toward a higher force or being. There is most likely some heavy karma related here, and at some point it will benefit to explore a long time brewing conflict with Divine Will.
Integrated Self Number
Balanced-You seek to be less dependent upon others and stand up for your purpose and desired position in life. A nagging question for you might just be, “what is my purpose in life”? You benefit from developing a universal perspective of human evolution and your own place in that process. Your will is more powerful when it is in harmony with the group consciousness.
Assertive-It is easy for you to slip into grandiose and exaggerated visions of your self-importance. Once you realize that everyone else is also as important, you can start to develop a better strategy for implementing your unique skills and purpose. Possible your ego is greater than your vision.
Passive-You witness others having transcendental and spiritual experiences and events which lift them to lofty heights of awareness and vision. You believe that you should be having the same, and even better. And you can become very angry when these do not happen. There will come the time when you choose to unravel some hidden memories and source of rage and resentment.
Balanced-Life can be a constant adventure of change, challenge and collecting valuable ongoing new experiences. You breeze though experience with gusto and a child-like curiosity about what is to come next. You will be around people and events that bring new, different and sometimes dark and challenging opportunities, ideas and inventions to humanity.
Assertive-You find yourself forcing the issue and pushing things before their time has come. Your impatience and willfulness can get in the way of letting what you really want to come available. You will encounter willful adversaries and opposion until you learn to value others in a healthy perspective.
Passive-You can become bitter and envious toward people who are getting ahead and reaching their goals. You see people succeed with ideas or inventions that you thought were your own. You have an unconscious ability to withhold from people just what they want, and when they need it the most.
Interrelationship With Number 2
For further information about the interaction of numbers see Lynn’s book, Numerology: Nuances in Relationships.
Balanced– It is a delicate walk between you and the number 2. You can learn a lot about timing, tact and being aware of the others feelings and opinions as you would your own.
Assertive-It is very easy for you to want to overpower and ignore what the 2 person has to offer. You see them as soft, wimpy and indecisive.
Passive-You are hurt, wounded and put on pause by the number 2’s critical tongue and belittling attitude. You easily go into withholding and passive aggressive posturing in response.
Interrelationship With Number 3
Balanced– It is easy to be playful, proud and learn to be practical in your interaction with the 3 person. Imagination flows freely and there is a kindred spirit of adventure and joy for living.
Assertive-You can easily hurt the sensitivity of the 3 with your directness and blunt assessments. Your lack of aesthetic appreciation and indifference to the finer things can also become stressful.
Passive-You can easily be cold and emotionally indifferent to the 3’s suggestions and playful hints. Your crudeness can distract from developing tenderness and appreciation of each other.
Interrelationship With Number 4
Balanced-If you appreciate the patience and discipline that the number 4 offers, you can both create some very successful things together. Your inspiration and the 4’s perspiration can yield huge rewards.
Assertive-If you get pushy and impatient before the 4 establishes a proper structure; you can sabotage a potentially successful effort. And the 1’s arrogant and condescending attitude does not help.
Passive-If you do not immediately get your way, it is easy to simply shut down and refuse to cooperate with the slow and steady 4. You can rush things to premature conclusions with poor results.
Interrelationship With Number 5
Balanced-You can be play, party and engage life with the best of them, especially if you are responsible and use foresight in the process. You expand boundaries and test the frontiers of life..
Assertive-Your quest for indulgence can get you into excesses of addictive, dysfunctional and toxic relationships. You are more prone to debilitation than edification.
Passive-Fear of experience and intimacy can lead to much disappointment and rejections.You withhold from participating in the 5’s choices when you feel you are not getting your way.
Interrelationship With Number 6
Balanced-You can both learn maturity and wisdom from the exchange of experience and emotional stability you share. You may choose to take a relationship to mystical heights of awareness.
Assertive-You need for freedom and fear of commitment can drive the 6 away from intimacy and trust. You can easily take over and dominate rather than share and exchange.
Passive-Your immature self can refuse to do what 6 would like as a means of punishing for the lack of emotional support and care that you believe the 6 does not give to you.
Interrelationship With Number 7
Balanced-Your inspiration and the 7’s logic can lead to practical application of an innovative idea. This can be a power based spiritual and/or materially successful partnership.
Assertive-You are defiant toward the 7’s belief system and will do what you must in an attempt to prove it wrong. Your unconventional behavior can be a turn off to the 7 and the 7’s potentially helpful associates.
Passive-You may become swayed by the 7’s cultish or cryptic life doctrine, and give up your own will in order to gain acceptance and admission into the 7’s circle of associates.
Interrelationship With Number 8
Balanced– You could be the ultimate power couple. You can achieve enormous goals and attain great success when you apply the best of your traits. The strength and savvy of the combined numbers is potent.
Assertive-Your enormous ego and strong will threatens the powerful 8, and this can lead to potentially violent disagreements and fighting. There is a bitter failure to meet each other’s ideals.
Passive-Your previous abuse by an authority figure makes you afraid of the power of the 8, and of your own repressed potentially violent anger Your blame each other for inflicted losses.
Interrelationship With Number 9
Balanced- If your dreams and goals are a match, there is much you can do together. Success comes especially if your efforts are humanitarian and compassionate.
Assertive-Ambition and desire for self-recognition can get in the way of the dreams and altruistic aspirations of your combined efforts. Grandiosity gets in the way of your aspired generosity.
Passive-You fail to live up to your part of the commitment when you think that you are not getting the recognition that you deserve. You feel deep down that your role is more important than the other members of the collective effort.
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